Great title, right?
Well, I stole it. Blatantly.
In November of 2011, Larry Smith, Professor of Economics at Canada’s University of Waterloo, dropped it like a bomb at TEDxUW. With just under 3 million views and more write ups than I could count on Google, I figured I should be upfront.
But enough about my lack of originality.
Here’s the obvious question …
You aren’t following your passion.
Sound cliche? It should.
Here’s how Smith put it:
No matter how many times people tell you, “If you want a great career, you have to pursue your passion, you have to pursue your dreams, you have to pursue, the greatest fascination in your life,” you hear it again and again and then you decide not to do it.
And what lies beneath this killer mistake?
“You’re afraid,” says Smith, “to pursue your passion. You’re afraid to look ridiculous. You’re afraid to try. You’re afraid you may fail.”
In other words, our fears trump our passions. And we miss out a truly great career.
Our hearts — the very core of who we are — feel our fears. Our fears have weight. Substance. Gravity. Mass.
Our passions, on the other hand, don’t.
Our passions are vague, toothless things. Wispy cliches like, “I wanna be happy.” or “I wanna be loved.” or “I wanna feel secure.” Compared to the dark, lumbering beasts stalking our nightmares, our dreams are banal. They are trite. Stale. Light. Laughable.
It is absolutely incredible how few people can answer the simple question:
Go ahead, try it yourself.
In one sentence, try and summarize what you want most out of your work. Or out of your relationships. Or even out of your life.
It is staggering how few of us can fill in those blanks. And yet, having a clear, impassioned vision for what you want is the very first step in getting it.
In fact, as Warren Bennis famously wrote, “Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality.”
Carmine Gallo, in his uber insightful Talk Like TED, lays it out plain:
In any language, on any continent, in every country, those speakers who genuinely express their passion and enthusiasm for the topic are the ones who stand apart as inspiring leaders.
That means you have to be able to answer these questions:
Do not close this article until you answer those questions.
In fact, do not close this article until you write it out … until you root it in your heart, tattoo it on your brain.
Give your passion teeth. Make it existential. Make it emotive. And make it real.
I want to be a blessing — a source of relentless positivity and enthusiasm — to my clients in a way that reflects and is rooted in God’s staggering and ridiculous love for me.
I’d love to hear yours in the comments.
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